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MY NEW YEAR'S IN PORTUGAL - First day in Lisbon.

Written by The Travel Butterfly.

Photo by The Travel Butterfly.

Lisboa airport


December 27, 2015.

My flight arrived at five in the morning, and since the check-in at my apartment is at 10am, I have some hours to kill at the airport. 

As I’m savoring a “pastel de nata” in a bakery, I slowly immerse into the happiness of the holidays; I feel so fortunate to have a “first row seat” in the arrival area at the airport so I can watch all the expressions of love: a father’s eyes lighting up when he sees his daughter looking for him, warm and welcoming hugs, and couples kissing. This reminds me of the girl I met while on the endless line for immigration.  She had been traveling for 13 hours and this was her third and last stop before meeting her boyfriend in Porto…. after three months!  It was so sweet to see how she talked about him with so much love and admiration.  I kept thinking how she managed all these emotions; she was going to see her love after three loooooong months and she was going to arrive at a city she had never been before…  such a beautiful story. I wish I could be there to see the reunion.


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I almost finished reading “The Alchemist” during my flight.  I’ve always believed in signs and I think there’s a reason this book ended up in my hands.  The book says that when you listen to your heart and go after your dreams, you love your present and get to enjoy the road in search of your dreams.  There’s something to look forward to, and this is when your heart is truly happy…

So, some days ago, I listened to my heart and decided to make a New Year’s trip to Portugal… by myself.  I have proved that my heart is right when it pushes me to be brave and dare to experience life adventures even as a solo traveler.

Well, It’s time to go… I take a cab.  The driver, Jose, is so nice.  An unexpected tour of Lisbon begins as soon as we leave the airport.

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My Sweet First Day in Lisbon



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A strong feeling of anticipation rushes in as I get ready to begin discovering the town. I was able to get a few contacts from friends, but I have to admit it’s kind of nerve wrecking when you arrive alone in a completely unknown city for the first time.

My apartment is located in Rua Augusta, right in the center of the city. From my window I get to see the “Arco de la Praça do Comercio”.  Today is Sunday, still early in the morning, and everything is so quiet.  Some shops have begun opening their doors. I wonder if this is always this peaceful. 

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Photo by The Travel Butterfly.
I try to fight jetlag, so I leave my apartment and look for a place to have a nice breakfast; I walk a couple of blocks and find this bakery.  I think I might have died and woken up in heaven. This place is sorted with all varieties of breads and pastries. I get a cappuccino, a ham and cheese sandwich made with delicious semi-sweet bread, a cheese fluffy bread roll, and another “dulce de nata”….

I walk a little bit more and I feel like having another coffee. There are no naps in my agenda, just a strong determination to defeat this jetlag. The sweet lady from the coffee shop suggests I try a chocolate cake.... and I’m back in heaven or maybe this is just how sugar comma feels…








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My special tour of Lisbon

A good friend of mine put me in touch with João. They met long time ago when they were backpacking in Europe. They stayed in touch for years and recently met again in Lisbon.  He has assured me that João is the nicest guy I could ever meet in Portugal…

Well, I get ready to meet him for my private tour of Lisbon!  He has asked me to meet him at “Praça Dom Pedro IV”.  I check the map and see it’s only five blocks away from my apartment.  So, I think I should be able to get there in no time…  well, not really... in just a matter of hours, Rua Augusta got packed with shoppers, street artists, and tourists! The entrance of my building is blocked with spectators of a hip-hop dancing show; I get a little bit stressed but manage to go through the crowd. As soon as the road is free, I start walking as fast as possible…


I get to the square and start looking for João. When I finally spot him standing all cute with his hands in his pockets, I realize he is so much better looking in person than in those facebook photos. He sees me and waves with that great smile of his…wow! And here I am, not looking my best and hoping the eye concealer helped me look a little bit “fresher”.


He asks me if I would prefer to walk, and I do. It’s a beautiful day and I love walking; that’s the best way to discover a new town in my opinion.   We walk around Chiado, which is full of designer stores, shops and modern buildings.  João doesn’t talk much. I’m good at reading people but I’m having a hard time with this one…is he shy? I believe I’m pretty friendly, or at least my friends think so, and from time to time, I’m able to get a laugh out of him.

He works for an airline and he’s constantly out of town. The backpacking days are so long gone, he tells me. He asks about my plans for New Year, he will spend it in Azores with family. I have no plans, BUT that’s part of learning how to truly enjoy a spontaneous trip.

We walked by the “Teatro Nacional de São Carlos.” This is the opera house of Lisbon; he tells me he loves watching ballet. I perceive some romanticism hidden behind his introvert personality. 




The theater was opened in 1973 as a replacement for the Tejo Opera House, which was destroyed by the great earthquake in 1755. During the summer, you can enjoy free outdoor performances like opera and ballet.




We get to “Bairro Alto,” and as we start walking in this neighborhood, I feel like I’m quickly falling in love with Lisbon.  I am awestruck by its beautiful streets and its old and charming architecture.




We take a break at a rooftop bar with a view of the city. 


I have to admit, João is not only a nice guy but very good looking as well. He is in perfect shape and has wonderful teeth (I do love beautiful teeth by the way), but... I don’t think there’s any chemistry between us, and it’s fine.  I am sincerely grateful for this day, but that doesn’t mean I do not try to flirt, I do… but I don’t think I’m being reciprocated, so I give up.  He asks me if I am ok and if I’m having a good time. I tell him I am….but I’m sure I look tired (I can only hide the jetlag for so long).  He doesn’t seem convinced with my answer.  So, this is confusing! Besides the fact that he already has spent half of his Sunday with me, and insists on making sure I am enjoying the tour (AND his company), at times, he just seems so uninterested, especially when he spends a lot of time checking his phone... weird!




We walk around Bica. He shows me the “Pink Street” and the places where a lot of the nightlife takes place in Lisbon. After a few blocks of walking and talking, we end up at a small but lively jazz concert by the river: Rio Tejo.




The tour ends with nutella crepes at the Praça do Comércio. He walks me to my building entrance, he gives me a friendly hug, which honestly seems right, but I don’t know how and when things get even more confusing than before…we suddenly stare at each other awkwardly and slowly get closer, and kiss!... or did I kiss him first? Oh boy, I’m not sure… so much for no chemistry!

We kiss again and my brain is still trying to understand what’s happening.  He asks me if I’m going to invite him over but… although he is so attractive and yes, such a good kisser, now that the blur on my head is gone, I kindly say no.

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Table for one por favor


I start walking around my neighborhood looking for a casual place to have dinner. I walk in this place that doesn’t seem too intimidating, and it turns out that the waiters are so polite and friendly. It’s just what I was looking for.




While I enjoy an exaggerated amount of octopus and clams, I watch some heavy flirting going on across my table. A cute waiter spends so much time complementing two young beautiful tourists, it’s funny. It’s great to have something fun to watch while enjoying a meal.  A sweet gentleman who works there checks on me frequently making sure I love my dinner…. And oh, yes! I definitely do. The octopus is tender and the rich olive oil enhances its flavor.



I’m done with dinner and I get ready to leave, but this young flirty waiter approaches me and asks me to stay and have some drinks with him. I lie and tell him I will be back.  He says “goodbye, guapa” (goodbye, good looking)...”Goodbye” I reply thinking: “if you were only a little bit older….” I contain my laugh and continue walking.

Back at my apartment, I get a message from João saying it was great meeting me and hoped I had a good night.  He’s traveling to Azores tomorrow and there are no plans for a second date, but then again, I really have no expectations.  Life is so good now, why would I bother about anything else but being happy and continue falling in love with Lisboa?

Boa noite!

To be continued...

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